the una

Either cupid has his foot stuck where the sun dont shine or im just a different type of person.  Im on this kick of love and what not, so why not go into the realm that is oh so hard for some and oh so easy for others, "the one."  

If you are not sure what I'm talking about that  i talking about that one person that ultimately is the missing piece to the puzzle. Now, im talking from a perspective that im not really going to goto in to cuz its complexcity makes my head spin but in all the sitiuations that i have been in ,i have come up with a conclusion  kinda of a way to figure this out, its a science but the crazy part is that the textbook is written by the hearts of whoever is the formula. 

There are those, whose say out of all the people in the world your tryna to tell me that there is one, one person that can complete me? and im going to say yes, why not, why count out all the reasons for there to be a one person than to build a wall up that is so high that no one can anything to get around it and you are just missing out on your happiness. i mean we all live so many different lives it soon beecomes this muck that is impossible to see through, i say a couple decades ago finding your souls mate or your una was a little easier ,there was not many  fences up around people to shield us out, and the roles of the male and female were stronger than before, not saying that women belong barefoot in the kitchen, but chilvary was still alive and well and to be a gentleman was a task and to be lady was a job and when you both found the commonality and love for one another the bliss that ensued was magical. walks in the parks were not cliche or a seranade was not uncommon  a accurance, but now do to the narrcissitic nature of the culture. Where a man wants to prettier than girlfriend or more fierce than her, man we a losing out on a great gift, 

im going to address my gender right quick, you may say alli "where you nutz at son "talking like this ?"i could care what you say because you being so closed minded in the first place got us here. ok so there are some main things in my mind that are being a hindereance in the process of finding that beloved women of your one, the truth, if we all could just be truthful in manys situations, this world would be much better , be honest to anyone and everyone you meet just because to think its ok to be fake cuz the world is doesnt make it ok. being honest with one self in all things and dealing with you problems before bestowed them on your mate and saying its there fault, accountabilty , have it. treat women as you would want somebody to treat your daughter or mother, 

Respect is a key issue as well ,im sorry for jumping around you just gotta keep up, as God put us on this planet he left males in charge so if you wanna know why alot of things in realtionships are messed up is because either you or another male have not acted appropriately, we love living by these double standards that we can do anything and they can do nothing, we've even tricked ourselves into feeling that we have the  right to anger.Tto be angry when this happens, thats just dumb even though youve been doing the same things..... hold plz cuz i feel if i just keep talking we are going to end in circles and thats a waste of time so here's a list

i will add to it but of the top of my head here are somethings that will make it easier

Things to discard: double standards, dishonesty,disrespect,not having compassion

if u lose those things in your relatioships you'll see a change(note there are more)

Things to GAIN: TRUST,COMMUNATCATION,LOVE,RESPECT,HONESTY,A HUMBLE NATURE TOWARDS YOUR MATE.

WE MUST LEARN TO BE HUMBLE TO ONE ANOTHER,NOT  PUSHOVERS BUT IF WE RESPECTFUL HAVE A CONCENSUS Amongest each other .

Females i will say males must take a major part of the blame being as thought were are to be the leaders in the household and when we lead with bad example after bad example. i mean why wouldnt i expect that you guys to pick up some kind of baggage from that?

As women yall have to be resistant to the bull that is out there, have a standard. but do not think you are better than any man, because you find your one real quick, when you looking at yourself every morning, as strong as ya'll are as mother and leaders of households due to "man". Please don't adapt the  ways of your counter part, someone once told me if someone is treating you wrong dont change who you are let them be wrong. im not saying get abused or nothing bout dont allow the insecurity and low self esteem of someone dictate how your are viewed. 

Take pride in your honesty and loyalty, cuz some of us get counted out off of this simple question have your ever cheated on someone b4? and not much what this say you, whole heartly trust them after that... just at thought.

marinate and proceed

and we are finally here what you all have been waiting on, the main reason why you have read through all this.....

here we go when you find "the one" you will just know......

everybody is not the same ,in any capacity, man that just sounds confusing ok.I look at the one like this and im talking from my eye and mine only. im glad your here to read this hopefully you might catch something that you see in someone thats yours.She is the person that true indeed completes me in all facets, i am her compleiment and she is mine, in all that i lack she makes up for, im strong to the lead her but im humble enough to recieve to her help, to have in unquestionable trust like none other on this planet, to know each other inside and out, nothing is secret or hidden. We must know the deepest darkest fear from within each and do what ever is possible  to keep it from reality and if it does show to the light of day her first step is tandem with mine to face it, to read my heart at glance, melt me with a smile and doing what ever to hear her laugh till she cant talk cuz oddly enough its one of the things that is almost as beautiful as she is, her enery energizes me ,  making everyday feel like the first day we decided to be, she tip toes in and out of my day, lite as a feathers touch in memories sight, beside these the true explaination of our affections are unexplainable but all the more reason why i love her and why she love me, a compatablity the revials manucfactered pairs and from regeneration  material we converse upon makes our toungues tired and our body languages weak from utterance. 

well how do you find her?

 since she is my one true love our magentism through God is drawing her to me and to me to her, ever so subtly and we become 1 in God's eyes. We are the love story that God has authored, with each pen stroke forms a picture from his words, LOVE,a simple picture is illustrated a simple triangle with him at the top guiding procession and with her and i on a opposing ends but connected still on the same wave length, the only Love triangle suitable for happiness, the only Love triangle acceptable in his eyes. in total surrender.

Im not saying that days well always be perfect, and troubles can't surface, and you might say where is this love that you are speaking of. it is if i allow it to be, if i love her this much and we are not even together imagine when we'll be, IF you feel like love can never feel this way then it wont, if you are loving the mudane where thats where youll stay. but if God put this together what shall we be afraid of? why we should concern ourselves with the reason of why of Love cant be like this it not only a waste of time but a waste of love... thats something horriblybeautiful